Our brokenness reveals something about who we are.
Our sufferings and pains are not simply bothersome interruptions of our lives; rather, they touch us in our uniqueness and our most intimate individuality.
The way I am broken tells you something unique about me. The way you are broken tells me something unique about you. That is the reason for my feeling very privileged when you freely share some of your deep pain with me, and that is why it is an expression of my trust in you when I disclose to you something of my vulnerable side.
Our brokenness is always lived and experienced as highly personal, intimate and unique.
Fr. Henri Nouwen, Life of the Beloved